Each of us has things we hold close and precious. For most people, it’s health, family, financial security, and comfort. Our soldiers on the front lines are willing to give up their lives to protect us and the values upon which this country stands.
But what about us? For what goal are we willing to give up some of our creature comforts? What are we willing to risk our lives for?
In this week’s parsha, Yehuda stands up to Yosef, fully aware that he is outmatched. The Midrash describes the confrontation and concludes: Yosef kicked the stone pillar upon which he was seated, turning it into a heap of pebbles. Yehuda, seeing this says, “This one is mightier than I.”
Yehuda knew Yosef was stronger and that there were many more Egyptians then the 11 brothers. And yet, he did not retreat. Why? Because a Jewish child was in danger. For that, Yehuda was willing to risk everything.
Today, when speaking with people about strengthening Jewish life and involvement, the most common obstacle is priority. For children it may be sports; for adults it may be work, travel, or the many luxuries of modern life.
Let’s learn from Yehuda. He was willing to go to war to ensure that one child remains connected Jewishly. Fortunately, we do not need to go to that extreme. However, at times, we do need to give up creature comforts in order to prioritize our Judaism.
The most powerful way to teach children is by example, and the best way to teach ourselves, is not through words alone, but by taking action. What are we willing to place second in order to place our connection with Hashem first?
Have a good Shabbos.
Rabbi Kushi Schusterman