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Do You Want a Hug?

Do you crave the connectedness and friendship that a hug conveys?

The good news is that there is a giant bear hug on the horizon. The sukkah is described as G-d’s embrace, as He cradles us in His metaphysical arms, safe and secure in His presence.

Ready to experience this Divine hug? Now is the time to get building!

The main mitzvot of Sukkot are spending time (especially eating) in the sukkah and waving the Four Kinds (lulav and etrog). If there is any way we can help you (or anyone in the community) perform these mitzvahs, please hit reply and let us know.

Tradition describes Sukkot as the “time of our rejoicing.” And with G-d’s help, we will celebrate to the best of our ability.

To help you celebrate Sukkot with joy and unity, here are some articles, videos, and stories just for you. We hope they come to good use.

You are also invited to join any of the sukkot events, or let us know and just come by to hang in the sukkah. 

Sending you a hug!

Rabbi Kushi and Fraida Schusterman

P.S. Check out these links below :) 

see G-d every day

It is easy to focus on the big moments in life, like Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur, and forget that G-d is present in our everyday lives as well. Yet, when we take the time to slow down and pay attention, we can see G-d's hand in everything; from a chance encounter with a friend to a beautiful sunset.

This week I am reflecting on the week between Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur. A time when we are in limbo, waiting for our verdict from G-d which happens on Yom Kippur. This is a time when our relationship with G-d is at its strongest.

It is clear how G-d guided my steps this week. I went to talk to the school board about keeping Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur as days off (Please fill out the survey here). I also spoke to the Great Wolf Lodge about getting a sukkah for their Jewish clientele. Neither meeting was on my calendar. However, G-d guided me to end up there. These are two very different things, but both show that G-d is working in my life, even in the small and seemingly insignificant moments.

It’s important to work on seeing G-d in the ordinary. It is a reminder that G-d is always with us, even when we don't feel it. And it is a challenge to us to be open to G-d's guidance in every aspect of our lives.

As you reflect on your life, try to see where G-d has been leading you. Be grateful for the many ways that G-d has blessed you (and challenged you), both big and small.

I am writing this in a coffee shop, where I didn't plan on being, waiting for a flight to arrive. Why? Hashem wanted me here!

Do you sometimes see G-d in the mundane, simple parts of life?

That is what I am reflecting on these days. What are you reflecting on?

Have a good Shabbos,

Rabbi Kushi Schusterman

Turn it into something sweet

A bee is a little insect, and it's not considered "kosher", however on the special day of Rosh Hashanah, we eat honey that comes from bees.

Sometimes in life, we do things that aren't so good, like the non-kosher bee. And sometimes, we have tough experiences that feel like stings too. But just like we use bees to make sweet kosher honey, we can turn those not-so-good things into something sweet.

On Rosh Hashanah, we try to become our best selves, like going back to our true and good inner selves. We talk to G-d and say, "If I did things that weren't so good, help me transform them into something sweet like honey." And we also say, "If life gave me tough times, I'll try my best to make them better, just like turning stings into honey."

There's a lady in our community who lost her job, and it was really hard for her. But after a little while, she saw that losing her job might have actually been a good thing. She became calmer and happier. She started doing things she loved, like spending time with her family, helping others, and enjoying hobbies she had forgotten. She also spent more time thinking about and talking to G-d.

We hope that we won't have to deal with bad things or stings in the coming year. But if we do, we hope we can turn them into something sweet, like a strong connection with G-d.

We send our best wishes for a Happy and Healthy New Year that's full of sweetness.

Rabbi Kushi Schusterman 

Leave the negativity behind

 

Before Rosh Hashanah we take stock of our year. We take account of what we need to improve in and make resolutions to make amends.

One of the things that frustrates me is hearing people speak negatively about others. It can be about the friend they got into a fight with, an organization that is too liberal or not liberal enough or the community member that is being spoken about as a covert mouthpiece for a specific political party.

We need to recognize that we are one people! We do not speak badly about those who are close to us. Just as we do not speak negatively about our children, we cannot speak negatively about our fellow Jew.

In 1990, an Orthodox Rabbi spoke publicly and not positively about his fellow Jews. That Shabbos, the Rebbe responded (this is an excerpt from the endnotes of the book “Rebbe” written by Joseph Telushkin):

‘We must remember that all Jewish people are one single unified entity... We must appreciate the importance of speaking positively and the detrimental effects of speaking negatively.... Criticizing or speaking unfavorably about any portion of the Jewish people is like making such statements against G-d Himself…

… Those who were spoken negatively of should know that these words will have no effect on them. On the contrary G-d will bless them both in material and spiritual matters with good health and long life.’

This upcoming year, I invite you to consider leaving all the negativity behind.  Try to lay aside the fights and disagreements. At the minimum, do not let them leave your lips. And then, we will be blessed as a people with success, both in material and spiritual matters, with good health and long life.

Have an amazing Shabbos,

Rabbi Kushi Schusterman

 

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