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Spirituality or Ice Cream? What do you think?

 I got an email from a friend this morning that started off with:

“Are you proud to be Jewish?
Do you fast on Yom Kippur?
Do you like good, homemade cheesecake?
If you answer yes to any of the above, this celebration is for you!"

Shavuos is a very Jewish event! We celebrate with delicious dairy foods, ice cream, cheesecake, blintzes, etc. We are commemorating a day 3335 years ago, when the Jewish people received the 10 commandments from Hashem. It's the day that Hashem said, you are my people. It's the day that we entered and created a relationship that can't break. It's the day that regardless of my level of observance of the mitzvot, I celebrate being part of the Jewish people.

Shavuot is also the day we chose to be Jewish and accepted to do as many mitzvot as we can. It's the day that we said our children will be the guarantors of Judaism's survival.

I realized we are marketing it all wrong. We are marketing the physical enjoyment and pleasure of the Shavuot celebration. Perhaps it would be better to market Shavuot as the day you celebrate the anniversary of your connection with Jewish spirituality.

What do you think about which marketing works better?

I hope you can make it this Friday at 5:00 PM at Chabad.

Not in town? find a Chabad nearby to hear the 10 commandments at www.HarfordChabad.org/Centers (their service may be at a different time).

May we all merit to receive the Torah with joy and may it have a personal impact on our spiritual journey.

Rabbi Kushi Schusterman

Warning: Your spiritual path may be fatal for someone else

 Many religious services include a cup of wine; the seder, Kiddush, Havdalah, a wedding, a bris, etc. However, for the alcoholic, drinking a cup of wine can lead to death. The path to recovery from alcoholism is long and avoidance of drinking is the key to success. Even one drink can lead the alcoholic down a path to more and more drinks.

Drinking wine is important and a mitzvah for some, and a major transgression for another. In Judaism, every person has their own spiritual path to G-d. The framework for everyone is the same, Torah and Mitzvot. However, for you the path may be more focused on prayer, and for someone else it may be Torah study. For you it might be charity with money and another through volunteering their time.

Each of us needs to protect our own spiritual path, lest we fall into a spiritual path that doesn't work for our souls. This is one of the messages from the verse in this week’s Torah portion: "You shall appoint Aaron and his sons, and they shall keep their kehunah (Priesthood); any outsider (non kohen) who approaches shall be put to death."

If you are a Kohen, your path to G-dliness includes specific behavior which for a non-Kohen is dangerous, and lethal, similar to alcohol for the alcoholic.

The G-dly way is to protect your path, and respect the path of others, when both are guided by Torah.

Have a good Shabbos,

Rabbi Kushi Schusterman

Doing Well? Thank Gd! Struggling? Thank Gd

We have our successes and our failures. One day we are on top of our game and feel like we are on top of the world. Perhaps we closed a good deal or our stocks went shooting through the roof. On other days we feel like a loser and a failure. We got caught up at work and missed an important event at our child's school or are toiling tirelessly on a particular effort and we can't get it done. Perhaps we are hit with large and unexpected expense or we have a bout with a health issue that knocks us off our axis.

The bulk of this week Torah Portion,  talks about the Shemitah or the Jubilee year. Briefly, we are commanded to till the fields for seven years and then in the eighth year, let the land lie fallow. Anything that grows (beyond what is needed for the owner's family) is available to all as charity and prohibited from being sold. The reward for this is, that in the ninth year, (the first of the new cycle) enough produce will come forth to sustain us for that year, where new planting begins, and the next year as well.

Essentially, what is being told to us by the Torah, is that every once and a while, one must kick back and relax, as it were, and realize that the success of their production, comes from G-d. Indeed, we must till the land, we must make a vessel, we must go to work, but at the end of the day, it is "the blessings of G-d that make one rich".

So often, we get so caught up in the day to day grind, perhaps it is auto-pilot or simply sheer need, that we don't stop moving for long enough to realize that when you ask someone, how are you doing today? It is a real question, and deserves a real, thought out answer, (even if it will be negative) followed by a "Boruch Hashem" - thank G-d. I.e. How am I? Lousy, thank G-d. or  How am I? Amazing, thank G-d. Everything is going well. Regardless, thank Gd everything (even that which is difficult and challenging), comes from G-d  

The portion teaches us that, regardless if you do this on your own or not, G-d will force you to take some time off to smell the breeze or its spiritual equivalent and appreciate that which is important versus that which is not. Thank G-d for that which he has given you and revel in that and not in the other stuff.

So next time you are in the shop, for your car or any other physical item, hopefully you will remember the message of the Jubilee year, that this too is from G-d, and this too is for good, and finally thank G-d that our troubles usually last only for an hour or two or even a week or two and not a whole year.

Have a Good Shabbos,

 Rabbi Kushi Schusterman 

The secret to better relationships

The secret to growth is a dead mitzvah.

The effect of doing a mitzvah is a connection with G-d. The word mitzvah, literally translated as commandment, is derived from the root word tzavsa, meaning attachment.

If I want to have a good relationship with my wife, I need to not only do the things I enjoy, that are easy and fun, but also the things that are boring, annoying, and ignored.

If you want to enhance any relationship, do the things that no one else is noticing or doing. Instead of getting roses, the ‘typical’ flower, notice that your wife likes tulips and get her those. Even more meaningful would be to notice the color she prefers them.

In Judaism, a Kohen is not allowed to come in contact with a dead body. However, when it comes to an unidentified, unclaimed dead body, even the High Priest can become impure to bury such a person. 

This unclaimed body is referred to in Hebrew as a ‘mes mitzvah’, literally translated as a dead mitzvah. When you want to grow, find a mitzvah that is unidentified and unclaimed. A mitzvah that you don't want to deal with or explore. Try out the mitzvah that perhaps you only found out about recently and ensure it has a respectable resting place, in you. 

Hashem notices that you got Him the "tulips" instead of the roses because you care to enhance your relationship with Him.

Not sure which mitzvah? Get in touch and we can discuss an idea that works for you. Heads up: it may take you out of your comfort zone. That is how growth happens!

See you soon, G-d willing.

Have an amazing Shabbos,

Kushi

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