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Commnity (not a typo) isn't complete without U

What's more important, the individual or the collective? 

How important am I? Is my only value being part of the community? Do I have a unique value that I bring on my own?

We find something interesting in this week's Torah portion when speaking about the accounting done of all the funds brought in for the Mishkan, the Tabernacle. The parsha begins by saying; every one whose heart is willing - כֹּל נְדִיב לִבּוֹ, each individual’s dollar was counted and shown appreciation and importance. And then we see how this portion is all about how all the contributions added up to making the whole Mishkan project possible.

This is especially relevant for our community here in Harford County. In building the Harford Haven (harfordhaven.org), we recognize that each individual is donating as much as they can, while the total of all the gifts is making the building a reality.

Interestingly, in different societies they emphasize one side of this equation. In America, individualism is most important; the value of each person's unique and diverse perspective is appreciated. In other cultures, what’s important is only how a person is part of the larger group, like in communism.

Judaism tries to strike a balance. Every individual is valued for their individualism and individual importance. Yet each one together will make up the Jewish people.

This is one of the messages of this week's Torah portion. It not only accounts for every dollar that was given but also ensures that every person recognizes that their contribution, no matter the size, is important. Together, they made the Mishkan possible.

You are important. Your individual contribution to society and to the Jewish people is imperative. Simultaneously, you are part of a commnity that is not the same without U.

Jdaism is missing something without U. 

Hope to see you soon and have a good Shabbos,

Rabbi Kushi Schusterman

P.S. to sign up for the seder visit harfordchabad.org/seder

 P.P.S. did you get the HarfordHaven.org  mailer? The bilding wants U to get involved.

Spiritual self care

This past week I spent a day in PA. I started out in Hershey, not because I was taking the kids to Hershey Park, but to visit a local Jew in the hospital. On the way home I went to put up mezuzahs by a Jewish woman who lives by the PA/MD border.

Being a Rabbi comes with all sorts of perks and challenges. Ultimately, my days needs to be guided by "what does Hashem want from me today?".

In this week's Torah portion, it tells us that "The princes (tribe leaders) brought the Shoham stones". Since all the dedications for the tabernacle were brought before they got there, they didn't know what to offer. So, they donated the Shoham stones, etc.

A leader's primary responsibility is to ensure that the community members fulfill their role. Ideally, if leaders execute their role effectively, the people will rise to the occasion and contribute all they can. This is exactly what happened by the building of the tabernacle. The only contributions left for the tribe leaders to bring were those that the people simply did not possess.

The leaders still got a little flack. They were lax in ensuring that they too can partner in the mishkan building process. While a leader's primary responsibility is to guide and inspire others, he cannot neglect his own personal service of G‑d.

We too are each a leader. Sometimes of others and sometimes of ourselves. While we need to make sure that others are taken care of, we also must be on top of our own spiritual self-care.

Why shlep to Hershey, PA? Because when you are in a hospital far from home, you need to know that your community leaders care about you. Why the mezuzahs? Because this woman is making sure that her family is taking care of their spirituality and it's my job to support that. Additionally, doing mitzvahs for others is my own spiritual self-care. After all, the Baal Shem Tov writes that a soul comes into the world for 70-80 years just to do a favor for another, spiritually or physically.

Have a good Shabbos,
Rabbi Kushi Schusterman

ǝɔɐɟɹns ǝɥʇ ʇsɐd ʞool

I have met people who seem distant from traditional Jewish life, yet they display real sacrifice to express and ensure their Jewish identity isn't hidden.

Paradoxically, we find many Jewish communities evaluate themselves and others based on outward observance, measuring adherence to Jewish Law as the quantifier of religious commitment.

True Jewish law and practice remain the foundation of our tradition. However, Purim reveals that Hashem's connection to each and every Jewish soul operates on a level that transcends this accounting.

The Purim story unfolds without overt miracles or explicit mention of the Divine Name. At the same time, when the Jews faced annihilation, even those who participated in the non-kosher (immoral?) party that Achashverosh hosted demonstrated a commitment to their Jewish identity.

Kabalistically, every Jewish person possesses a unique capacity for true oneness to not separate themselves from G-d's unity under any circumstances whatsoever.

Consider the paradox: Purim allows for work, unlike the formal sanctity markers of other holidays, yet Purim is considered spiritually superior to even the biblically mandated festivals. Even Yom Kippur is called Yom HaKiPurim, the day that is like Purim. This teaches us that holiness sometimes manifests precisely where we don't expect to find it.

Similarly, the souls who may seem distant from traditional observance may nevertheless carry within them that same spark of mesirus nefesh (self-sacrifice) that characterized the Jews of Purim. Their connection to Hashem stems from the level of G-dliness where "there is in fact no distinction between what we experience as 'bad' and 'good,' darkness or light."

When we internalize that Hashem's love operates from this transcendent level, we can begin to see each Jew through the deeper reality of their essential connection to the Divine and not through the lens of their current religious practice.

This is not to diminish the importance of mitzvot or Torah study but to recognize the connection that exists even before and beyond religious practice.

Therefore, on Purim we are encouraged to get to a point where we have no knowledge of the difference between Haman and Mordechai. This can help us tap into our soul level, seeing each other as Hashem's child, regardless of where we each stand religiously. And perhaps then, we can seize the moment to shine forth and connect with tradition in a way we never allowed ourselves to.

When we approach each other with this awareness, recognizing that Hashem's love reaches every Jewish soul regardless of their current level of observance, we participate in revealing that higher unity that Purim celebrates – where distinctions fade and we glimpse, if only for a moment, the undifferentiated love that flows from the Divine Essence itself.

Happy Purim and good Shabbos.

Rabbi Kushi Schusterman

The Joy of Just Being You

Have you ever felt super happy for no special reason? That's what we call the joy of just being!

On the holiday of Purim, we celebrate this special kind of happiness. We read the story, give gifts and presents, eat yummy food, and have fun together. This helps us feel a happiness that's bigger than anything we can touch or see.

Most days, we're busy with school, chores, and activities. We forget to notice how amazing it is to just be alive! But during Purim, we need remember this special feeling.

There are different kinds of happiness we can feel:

Body Happiness: When you run fast or build something cool
Feeling Happiness: When someone gives you a big hug
Thinking Happiness: When you solve a tricky math problem
Soul Happiness: When you feel connected to God
Just Being Happiness: The best kind! This is when you're happy just because you exist

As Purim approches, try to notice moments when you feel happy for no reason at all. Maybe when you're quiet, or laughing with friends, or just looking at the sky.

Remember - you don't need to do anything special to deserve happiness. You're amazing just because you're you!

Happy Purim!

Rabbi Kushi Schusterman
P.S. I hope you can join us www.harfordchabad.org/purim 

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