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Jump in, the Miracle that wasn't the oil

 A millionaire held a pool party at his mansion, with sharks swimming in the pool. Suddenly, he announced that anyone brave enough to swim across the pool would receive a million dollars in cash. No one volunteered. He raised the stakes: he would also give away his yacht and massive villa, totaling fifty million dollars.

Suddenly, a figure was seen in the water, carefully swimming between the sharks, and emerging on the other side. The stunned millionaire asked, "Who should I make the check out to?" "I don't want a check," the swimmer replied breathlessly, "I want to know who the scoundrel was who pushed me into the water..."

The Hasmoneans teach us a powerful lesson about trust in Hashem. Why do we celebrate Chanukah for eight days when the miracle of the oil flask lasted only seven days? On the first day, they had the natural oil which was found, the miracle occurred only in the seven following days when the oil didn't run out.

The miracle of the first day is that the Hasmoneans jumped into the water (or oil). They didn't let tomorrow's shortage prevent what needed to be done today. They didn't sink into realistic worries of "what will be?" Why should we light the menorah tonight if the oil is only enough for one night and seven more days will pass before new, pure oil can be brought? Instead, they took all the flask's contents and poured them into the menorah branches. They were one hundred percent certain that He who had helped them until now would help tomorrow to fulfill the commandment of lighting with pure oil.

The Lubavitcher Rebbe wrote to someone: Miracles happen after someone jumps into the water, but the problem is that people avoid jumping into the water. The depth is frightening, and they stay outside. There is a video of the Rebbe where a woman asks for a blessing for spiritual strength. She aspires to advance in Torah and commandments but fears she won't withstand the greatness of the challenge. The Rebbe answered "There are two ways to learn swimming: to stand outside and observe how to swim or to jump inside and strive to manage. The second approach is much more effective..."

The first day of Hanukkah reminds us of a miracle greater than the one of the oil. The miracle of the human beings who rose above and were willing to open themselves to trust in the all-powerful G-d.

The Hasmoneans understood the foundation of existence: Life is a partnership between humans and Hashem. Humans do everything in their power, and then Hashem does everything in His power, in an infinitely greater way. Humans create a natural vessel and preparation for blessing, and then the blessing comes from above in a way that's incomparable to the vessel itself.

Today, make that first move to increase your Torah and mitzvah experience. Celebrate the miracle of Chanukah by taking the step that you are scared to take.

Happy Chanukah and Good Shabbos,

Rabbi Kushi Schusterman

Finding Authentic Tranquility

Have you ever noticed how life has perfect timing? Just when you think you can finally relax, another challenge appears.

This week, I faced this personally. Should I make a whirlwind 32-hour trip to Toronto for a family bar mitzvah? After returning, should I immediately jump into another celebration of the Chassidic Holiday 19 Kislev?

My ego (my desire for control?) wanted one thing, but my authentic self - my soul - pushed for another.

Like a peaceful lake that masks turbulent depths below, our desire for "peace and quiet" might actually be avoiding necessary growth and authentic self-discovery. True tranquility isn't about avoiding challenges. It's about finding peace within them. It's about recognizing, as Jacob did when he said, "Surely G-d is in this place, and I did not know," that sometimes our greatest moments of growth come precisely when we let go of our ego and trying to control everything.

The chaos in our lives isn't happening TO us - it's happening FOR us. Each challenge is an invitation to peel away the layers of who we think we should be and discover who we truly are.

Next time life throws you a curveball just as you're settling in for some "peace and quiet," ask yourself: Is this an invitation to find a deeper, more authentic tranquility?

Have a good Shabbos,

Rabbi Kushi Schusterman

P.S. What helps you find authentic tranquility in challenging times?

Feeling Disconnected? Reconnect!!

Have you ever felt like you're so far from your spiritual path that returning seems impossible? In the past few weeks, I met with several locals who are reconnecting with their Judaism. However, over the past 50 years or so, they felt lost, disconnected and were taking detours.

I recently read a talk from the Rebbe describing the challenging times of the Mitteler Rebbe (the second Chabad Rebbe). During that time, Jewish children were being forcibly conscripted into the Russian army from a very young age. A devastating experience that seemed to tear Jewish souls away from their heritage.

While in such darkness during their captivity, they felt disconnected, unable to perform mitzvot and many forgot their Judaism.

You might wonder: What's the purpose of their soul's journey if they are not in touch with their essence, not engaged Jewishly with Torah and mitzvot?

No matter where one is spiritually, there's always hope. Even if you've strayed far from your spiritual roots, G-d orchestrates moments where you'll discover at least one single mitzvah you can perform with incredible enthusiasm. That one moment of genuine connection can be so precious and may be the reason for your entire soul's journey, making it all worthwhile.

It's not only about how many mitzvot one performs, but the passion and self-sacrifice behind them. Even if someone can only keep a few commandments, the spiritual value of those actions, done with complete dedication, can outweigh everything else.

Whatever your current situation, never give up! You can always get back on track and continue to grow. Start with one action; learning one more verse of Torah (weekly torah class?), performing one more mitzvah (Shabbat Candles? Mezuzah?) or starting the day with the Modeh Ani prayer. Each step builds momentum, each action bringing you closer to your true soul identity.

Have a good Shabbos,

Rabbi Kushi Schusterman

P.S. The previous Rebbe would say a person's true age isn't measured by their passport, but by the years they've genuinely engaged with spiritual growth. We might be forty or seventy on paper, but spiritually, we could still be learning and growing like a child.

 

No challenge can stop you!

As I sat Sunday at the grand finale of the yearly international conference of Chabad Shluchim, I wondered if it would be the same old experience as every year. Then I experienced ASL, American sign language. The Rabbi to the deaf gave a powerful and impactful speech using ASL, as I followed what he was saying with the little guy talking in the corner (see image). 
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Rabbi Yehoshua Soudakoff, deaf himself, spoke about not letting

anything keep you from connecting to who you are. Nothing can hold us back from experiencing Judaism, we just need to give it an entry pass.

In this week’s Torah portion, we find that the permanent home of spirituality is not in the study hall or the shul, as we would believe it to be. Yet, we learn that it is in connecting to G-d when involved in the mundane world. At work or in our homes, in our day-to-day routines.

When you act G-dly wherever you may find yourself. When you don't allow the busyness of business and life to prevent you from daily Torah study and daily prayer. You are making the divinity part of the world!

Easy, NO! Fulfilling? Amazingly so!

Give it a try, don't let anything hold you back!

Reply to this email letting us know how we can help.

Have an amazing Shabbos,

 

Rabbi Kushi Schusterman

P.S. Watch the video of the speech here

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