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Is the news driving you crazy? It may be a message of spiritual growth.

It's easy to get caught up in the negativity that surrounds us. From the news to social media, it seems like every day brings conflict, division, and chaos. But as Jews, we are called to rise above this negativity and focus on creating a world of unity between people and connection with Hashem.

One of the most powerful ways to do this is by recognizing that when we see negativity in others, and all of us do at some point, it can reflect our own inner struggles. This is a concept that is beautifully illustrated in the story of Noach's sons, Shem and Yephes, who covered their father's nakedness without looking at it.

According to the Baal Shem Tov, when we see negativity in others, and view it that way, it is because we are being shown our own inner negativity. However, if we see and focus on the practical angle, seeing this as information that we can now use to impact them for good, it is actually a message that we were chosen to help them.

Next time you see someone acting negatively, remember that it's not just about them - it's about you too. Take a step back, breathe deeply, and focus on the positive and practical angle. See the opportunity to influence and correct, rather than getting caught up in the negativity.

This is why it says about Noach’s sons, "They did not see their father's nakedness", all they saw was something to be corrected.

If I am not seeing the opportunity, and just the negativity, perhaps it’s time for me to do some soul searching, perhaps it’s my own inner negativity that needs fixing.

Does this resonate with you? 

Have a good Shabbos,

Rabbi Kushi Schusterman

You control the world

The age-old question: who is better, humans or animals? Can we truly claim superiority over the natural world, or are we just another species in the grand tapestry of creation? The Torah offers a fascinating perspective on this topic, one that challenges our assumptions about our place in the world.

In the early days of humanity, G-d 's instructions were clear: "Be fruitful and multiply and fill the earth and subdue it, and rule over... all the beasts" (Genesis 1:28). But what does it mean to "subdue" the earth? Is it a call to dominate and exploit, or to work in harmony with the natural world? The answer lies in the context of G-d 's original dietary instructions: "Every green plant I give you for food, and you shall have them for food" (Genesis 1:29). Humans were originally meant to eat like animals, only vegetables. In the times of Noah meat was added to the diet.

G-d 's rules are not meant to be arbitrary or oppressive, but rather to guide us in our relationship with the world. As creations of G-d, we are called to be responsible stewards of the earth, not a dominant dictator but a benevolent ruler.

The Hebrew word for "rule over" (רדו) is closely related to the word for "fall" (ירדו). This is no coincidence. True dominion over the earth requires humility and partnership with G-d. When we approach the world with a sense of refinement and responsibility, we can "dominate" in the sense of elevating the physical world for spiritual purposes. But when we forget our place and succumb to hedonistic materialism, we risk falling into the trap of exploitation and destruction.

So, what does it mean to be human? Are we simply stronger and smarter animals, or are we something more? The answer lies in our relationship with G-d and the world around us. By embracing our role as co-creators and stewards of the earth, we can fulfill our potential as humans and find true fulfillment in our relationship with G-d and the natural world.

So go control the world around you - and elevate it.

Looking forward to seeing you over the next few days,

Rabbi Kushi Schusterman 

Do you want an answer, or do you want a hug?

 

I wanted to share with you a powerful story from my father's book, "Why God Why - How to Believe in Heaven When it Hurts Like Hell." In the book, he recounts a conversation he had with one of my brothers who was struggling to understand why G-d allowed a family member to die from lung cancer. Instead of trying to provide a theological explanation, my father asked, "Do you want an answer, or do you want a hug?"

My brother's eyes welled up with tears and he replied, "I want a hug." This story resonates with me. It makes me think about the importance of Sukkot and Simchat Torah in our Jewish tradition.

Just as most Jews wouldn't eat a bagel without the lox or cream cheese, attending synagogue on Yom Kippur without participating in Sukkot and Simchat Torah is like a bagel without cream cheese.

These holidays offer us a chance to reconnect with Hashem and with each other.

After confessing our sins on Yom Kippur and being blessed with a new year, we sometimes doubt if we are we truly okay. Will our relationship with Hashem remain strong?

We ask Hashem, "Do you still love me, even though I made mistakes?" And Hashem's answer is, "Do you want an answer, or do you want a hug?"

In the sukkah, surrounded by the walls of Hashem's embrace, we find comfort and reassurance.

We shake the lulav and etrog, symbolizing our connection to all types of Jews.

We dance with a closed Torah on Simchas Torah, representing our shared connection to the Jewish tradition.

I hope to see you at one of our Sukkot events, where we can come together and experience the warmth and love of Hashem's embrace.

Rabbi Kushi Schusterman 

Did you take your Yom Kippur pill?

“Researchers in Denmark have developed a new drug that mimics the effects and benefits of strenuous exercise without moving a muscle!”

When I came across this paragraph of clickbait on the news, I knew I had to continue reading. After all, I am a big fan of strenuous exercise. Yes, you read it right: I am a big fan (just like “baseball fans” who like to talk and watch baseball but leave the playing to other people, I am also leaving strenuous exercise to others…)

But whom am I kidding? I heard that strenuous exercise is good for you. So if I can have my cake and eat it too, and avoid exercising—that sounds like a good deal.

The article reports that “... the drug has been shown.. to flush toxins and strengthen the heart.” 

“Flush toxins and strengthen the heart.” Why does this sentence sound familiar?

Oh, I know! It reminds me of a talk by the Rebbe in honor of Yom Kippur, where he discussed the question: how does Yom Kippur work? We all know it’s considered a day of atonement, but how do we achieve it?

Here is a quote from that discussion (from Likkutei Sichos, volume 4):

“Yom Kippur reveals within every Jew the essence connection of their soul with the Creator, and when this level is revealed, all flaws automatically fall away.”

So Yom Kippur is “strengthening our heart” (our connection to G-d) and “flushing all [tox]sins!”

There is one big difference between the new medicine and the much older Yom Kippur “pill”. Unlike the medicine, which mimics the 10k run, Yom Kippur, when we strengthen our connection to G-d, it’s not mimicking; it’s revealing our true essence. And then, our sins flush away. Oh, and it also has no negative side effects. Some positive side effects are happiness, torah study and connection with Gd)

May this Yom Kippur bring with it a stronger, revealed connection to G-d, and may all of our prayers be answered.

Wishing you a Gmar Chatima Tova, have an easy fast, good yom tov, good Shabbos, sending love, praying for the hostages, the safety of our brothers and sisters in the holy land, and for world peace with the coming of Moshiach!

Rabbi Kushi Schusterman
P.S. My gratitude to Rabbi Mendy Kaminker from Chabad of Hackensack for this article which inspired me - I did make minor edits

Live as a Jew

As we approach Rosh Hashana, the Jewish New Year, when we crown Hashem as the ruler of the universe, I want to reflect on what it means to live as a Jew. While we often focus on the importance of dying as a Jew, I believe it's equally crucial to explore what it means to live like one.

The haftarah for the second day of Rosh Hashanah speaks of redemption, detailing how we will return to our ancient homeland of Israel and the wonders of the future Messianic age. It also explains why we will merit redemption and concludes with Hashem's love for us.

The secret of the haftarah lies in the powerful cry of Rachel, who weeps for her children. Her bitter tears move Hashem, who tells her that her children will return to their border. But why Rachel? Because she lived as a Jew.

Avraham was willing to sacrifice his son Yitzchak, and Yitzchak was willing to be sacrificed to die as a Jew, if Hashem desired. However, Rachel's story is different. When Yaacov and Rachel were to be married, Yaacov suspected that Laban, his future father-in-law, would deceive him by switching Rachel with her older sister Leah. Rachel and Yaacov prepared a secret signal to ensure that Yaacov would know it was truly Rachel. When Laban made the switch, Rachel realized that Leah would be embarrassed if discovered, so she gave her the signal. By doing so, Rachel sacrificed her own desires and happiness.

She gave up the man she loved and for the next 15 or so years, every time she saw Yaakov with Leah, she lived with the weight of that sacrifice. She could have been his only wife if he had married her first.

To live as a Jew is to make difficult decisions and live by those decisions every day, not begrudgingly, but with pride.

Hashem listens to Rachel not only because of her initial sacrifice but also because she continued to live with that sacrifice wholeheartedly, despite the personal cost.

I look forward to seeing you over Rosh Hashana. If you cannot join us at shul, please join us for Shofar in the Park on Thursday at 5:30 PM at Bynum Run.

May you be blessed with a good and sweet year.

Rabbi Kushi Schusterman

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