It's easy to get caught up in the negativity that surrounds us. From the news to social media, it seems like every day brings conflict, division, and chaos. But as Jews, we are called to rise above this negativity and focus on creating a world of unity between people and connection with Hashem.
One of the most powerful ways to do this is by recognizing that when we see negativity in others, and all of us do at some point, it can reflect our own inner struggles. This is a concept that is beautifully illustrated in the story of Noach's sons, Shem and Yephes, who covered their father's nakedness without looking at it.
According to the Baal Shem Tov, when we see negativity in others, and view it that way, it is because we are being shown our own inner negativity. However, if we see and focus on the practical angle, seeing this as information that we can now use to impact them for good, it is actually a message that we were chosen to help them.
Next time you see someone acting negatively, remember that it's not just about them - it's about you too. Take a step back, breathe deeply, and focus on the positive and practical angle. See the opportunity to influence and correct, rather than getting caught up in the negativity.
This is why it says about Noach’s sons, "They did not see their father's nakedness", all they saw was something to be corrected.
If I am not seeing the opportunity, and just the negativity, perhaps it’s time for me to do some soul searching, perhaps it’s my own inner negativity that needs fixing.
Does this resonate with you?
Have a good Shabbos,
Rabbi Kushi Schusterman
